{"id":651,"date":"2022-10-27T02:08:24","date_gmt":"2022-10-27T02:08:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/funnyvideo.us\/?p=651"},"modified":"2022-10-27T02:08:24","modified_gmt":"2022-10-27T02:08:24","slug":"keith-urban-does-everything-to-be-best-dad-of-2-girls-at-55-despite-living-with-trauma-due-to-his-father","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/topkeynews.com\/?p=651","title":{"rendered":"Keith Urban Does Everything to Be Best Dad of 2 Girls at 55 despite Living with Trauma Due to His Father"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>Keith Urban has been through the wringer, from growing up with an alcoholic dad who never showed love to him to almost ruining his new marriage with his addiction habits. Luckily, that is now all behind him, and today, he is a doting dad to his girls and a loving husband to his wife.<\/h4>\n<p>Keith Urban is a Grammy-winning country music singer, primarily recognized for his pop-rock influences and honest lyrics. For years, he had graced the stages with his songs, set behind melodious guitar tunes and strong emotions.<\/p>\n<p>Now living every singer\u2019s dream, Urban can only muse over how far he has come. The beginning of his career was not as glam as his life today, and he waded through some murky waters before achieving the near-perfect life he has today.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5653\" src=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-1-125.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 447px) 100vw, 447px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-1-125.png 447w, https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-1-125-193x300.png 193w\" alt=\"\" width=\"447\" height=\"695\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It was the early 90s, and Urban, then considered a long-haired guitar-slinging oddity, had just entered the music scenes. Nobody thought he was good enough, despite doing his best.<\/p>\n<p>He lived on the shabby side of town and had a roommate who was a little too keen on using drugs. For a while, Urban stayed put, but when a girl he was dating broke up with him, he spiraled out of control and found himself caught up in the eternal cycle of careless drinking and drug use.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5654\" src=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-2-125.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-2-125.png 450w, https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-2-125-196x300.png 196w\" alt=\"\" width=\"450\" height=\"688\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It became his lifestyle of choice for Urban, and he lived that way for years until someone came his way that made him change for the better.<\/p>\n<p>Nicole Kidman Came into His Life and Became His Savior<br \/>\nUrban wallowed in his dilapidating lifestyle for over a decade, a livelihood marred with intense drug use and alcohol abuse. But in 2005, his fate seemed to change when he met the lovely \u201cEyes Wide Shut\u201d actress Nicole Kidman.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5655\" src=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-3-124.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 351px) 100vw, 351px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-3-124.png 351w, https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-3-124-239x300.png 239w\" alt=\"\" width=\"351\" height=\"441\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The two fell in love fast, and the following year, they walked down the aisle in a romantic ceremony in Australia. However, his new life was not enough to stop his habits. Four months into their marriage, Urban\u2019s drinking habits were already posing significant problems in the new union.<\/p>\n<p>Still, instead of walking away, Kidman was hell-bent on helping her husband beat his habits, and the same year they walked down the aisle, Kidman staged an intervention for her new husband.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5656\" src=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-4-124.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 349px) 100vw, 349px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-4-124.png 349w, https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-4-124-300x295.png 300w\" alt=\"\" width=\"349\" height=\"343\" \/><\/p>\n<p>She helped him check into a rehab center, and after three months of inpatient hard work, the \u201cYou\u2019ll Think of Me\u201d singer returned home dedicated to staying on the sober train. He muses:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI caused the implosion of my fresh marriage. It survived, but it\u2019s a miracle it did.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5657\" src=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-5-124.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 292px) 100vw, 292px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-5-124.png 292w, https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-5-124-270x300.png 270w\" alt=\"\" width=\"292\" height=\"324\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Urban admits that that time of his life was the hardest, a fact to which Kidman can testify. He confesses that it got to a point where he favored dying.<\/p>\n<p>Urban considers Kidman his savior. The singer says he was spiritually awoken with her, and for the first time since the 90s, he felt he could shake off the shackles of addiction.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5658\" src=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-6-124.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 636px) 100vw, 636px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-6-124.png 636w, https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-6-124-300x257.png 300w\" alt=\"\" width=\"636\" height=\"544\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But how did a mild-mannered and soft-spoken kid\u2019s life turn so drastic? When did the rain start beating him? Urban blames his adversities entirely on his upbringing.<\/p>\n<p>Urban\u2019s Childhood Influenced His Future Choices<br \/>\nThe \u201cOnly You Can Love Me This Way\u201d singer describes his childhood as anything but ideal. He grew up with an alcoholic father who never once told him he loved him.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5659\" src=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-7-117.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 629px) 100vw, 629px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-7-117.png 629w, https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-7-117-227x300.png 227w\" alt=\"\" width=\"629\" height=\"830\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Urban says that whenever he did a gig on stage that he thought deserved a compliment, his father would always find a way to criticize him, and it ate at him for the longest time.<\/p>\n<p>The constant moving and lack of intimacy from his parents contributed mainly to his behavior as an adult. He remembers his dad as a physical disciplinarian, and his respite for showing love to his son traumatized Urban for many years.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-large wp-image-5660\" src=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-8-113-1024x746.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-8-113-1024x746.png 1024w, https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-8-113-300x219.png 300w, https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-8-113-768x560.png 768w, https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-8-113.png 1151w\" alt=\"\" width=\"640\" height=\"466\" \/><\/p>\n<p>However, he says he respected his dad and is forever grateful that he pushed him toward developing a music career. The \u201cDon\u2019t Let Me Down\u201d singer says that he spent most of his childhood trying to get his dad\u2019s approval, and in a way, that pushed him to be a better singer. He says:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m sure I had it when I was five, but I acted like I never had it, and it just has driven me my whole life. Then I just kept doing it. I was a little kid trying to get my dad\u2019s attention.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5661\" src=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-9-99.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 351px) 100vw, 351px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-9-99.png 351w, https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-9-99-241x300.png 241w\" alt=\"\" width=\"351\" height=\"437\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sadly, Urban\u2019s dad, Robert, was diagnosed with cancer and suffered from the illness for a long time until his passing on December 5, 2015.<\/p>\n<p>Despite all that happened in his childhood, Urban mourned the loss of his dad. He noted that he loved his dad enough to want him not to endure any more pain. \u201cI had to remove my selfishness from that.\u201d He says.<\/p>\n<p>Urban Is Living His Dream and Is a Doting Dad to His Girls<br \/>\nFor years, Urban dreamed about having his own family and, moreso, becoming a dad. \u201cI am looking forward to fatherhood. I have always wanted to be a good dad.\u201d He told The Sunday Telegraph, as People reports.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5662\" src=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-10-82.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 351px) 100vw, 351px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-10-82.png 351w, https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-10-82-300x201.png 300w\" alt=\"\" width=\"351\" height=\"235\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That dream came to fruition after the singer beat his addiction with the help of his wife. They welcomed their first child, Sunday Rose Kidman Urban, in July 2008 and the second, Faith Margaret Kidman Urban, in 2010.<\/p>\n<p>The singer always thought he knew what it would be like to have children, but the truth soon dawned on him that he had no idea.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5663\" src=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-11-53.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 668px) 100vw, 668px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-11-53.png 668w, https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-11-53-239x300.png 239w\" alt=\"\" width=\"668\" height=\"837\" \/><\/p>\n<p>But when he welcomed his two little girls, he realized that becoming a dad was an unexplainable feeling until you\u2019ve walked in those shoes:<\/p>\n<p>\u201cSo I\u2019m glad I got to experience that.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5664\" src=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-12-37.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 350px) 100vw, 350px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-12-37.png 350w, https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-12-37-300x290.png 300w\" alt=\"\" width=\"350\" height=\"338\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Urban confessed he was happy to experience fatherhood, noting that he loved being a dad to girls. He grew up with one brother and no sister, and having girls around the house changed his view on many things and has been a learning curve for him.<\/p>\n<p>Despite their daughters growing up with stars for parents, Urban and Kidman try to shield them from the spotlight as best they can. He disclosed that they did the most ordinary things as a family and did not live on social media like many other stars.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5665\" src=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-13-27.png\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 368px) 100vw, 368px\" srcset=\"https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-13-27.png 368w, https:\/\/dramanews.online\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/10\/aHR0cHM6Ly9jZG4uYW1vbWFtYS5jb20v-13-27-250x300.png 250w\" alt=\"\" width=\"368\" height=\"441\" \/><\/p>\n<p>At 55, Urban has achieved a lot. He is living many people\u2019s dreams with a prolific career in music and a successful family life.<\/p>\n<p>However, he says his family inspires him the most, and despite the fame, his role as a doting father to his babies and a loving husband to Kidman remains perhaps the most crucial part of his life.\n<\/p><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"screen-reader-text\">Continue Reading<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/nav>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Keith Urban has been through the wringer, from growing up with an alcoholic dad who never showed love to him to almost ruining his new marriage with his addiction habits. Luckily, that is now all behind him, and today, he is a doting dad to his girls and a loving husband to his wife. 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